Telling a Child What to Do and How to Behave will Often Backfire on You

The most effective way to get someone to do something, especially children, it to model the desired behavior. Nobody likes to be lectured to or be constantly told what to do. Lecturing will quickly send children in the opposite direction.

Model healthy interactions with your spouse and other adults. Always speak lovingly and respectfully.

Save shouting for safety only.

To teach your children manners say it for them rather than asking them to use the “Magic Word”. As you serve say, “Thank you Mama!” When your child demands service say, “May I have some juice please Papa?”

Or, try using non-verbal signals. Decide with your children what the hand signal will be when they have asked for service inappropriately. Use the hand signal, such as touching your lips with your index finger, every time they demand service.

Maria Montessori has shown us that modeling appropriate behavior is particularly critical during a child’s first six year of life, because children enter the Absorbent Mind developmental phase. A child’s mind acts like a sponge, integrating everything accurately, nonjudmentally, uncritically and effortlessly.

During the approximate ages of 2 1/5 to five years, children enter the Sensitive Period for Social Development phase. A child explores and absorbs group and social behavior. Due to this sensitivity, a child needs to have modeled acceptable social behavior at home and in a positive school setting.

The late guru, Rudolph Dreikurs, teaches us to teach and model mutual respect. Be kind and firm at the same time. Kind to show respect for your child, firm to show respect for yourself and the needs of the situation. This is difficult!

Ask, Tell, Respond, Act:

Ask first: “Please put your activity away.” Back off and wait. If needed:

Tell once: “This goes right here.” Hand her the toy and pat the shelf.

Respond: “OK Mama, I’m putting it away!.” (Say if for her.) If needed:

Act: “Let’s do it together!” Do it with joy! (Even if she doesn’t help.)

Teach and model that mistakes are great opportunities to learn:

Clean up your messes:

1. Own your part: “Wow, I just made a mistake!”

2. Apologize: “I apologize for_____. (Be specific)”

3. Commit: “The

The need for protection of rights of children

Childhood is a magical time. Full of discovery and innocence, it begins from the time one is born. Even before we learn to walk, we begin our observational journey that marks our initiation into the happenings of the world. >

The rights of children are fundamental in nature. They are associated by birth and continue to be applicable till one moves on into adulthood at the age of eighteen. Rights associated with children aren’t discriminating by nature. They are valid for all children across race, colour, gender, financial condition or location based factors. Equality for all forms the underlying theme here and the aim is to work towards it till every child in this world happens to be treated equally, sans discrimination in any form or manner.

The essential message is equality of opportunity. Girls should be given the same opportunities as boys.

Children are often considered to be the key holders to the future of mankind. It is they that will go onto ensure how the world shapes up a few decades from now. This is why; it becomes unequivocally critical that all children be exposed to an environment full of happiness and love during their formative years. Learning should come at a pace where they are comfortable assimilating it and adulthood must not be forced upon them in any way whatsoever.

Unfortunately, millions of babies die each year, some even before they are born. Gender based pregnancy terminations remain a grim reality and is practiced in many a developing country, India included. The girl child continues to be discriminated against, with most girls receiving significantly lower opportunities for personal and educational growth. Child employment rates too have continued to rise at an alarming rate with emerging nations like China, the Indian sub-continent and others being guilty of such criminal acts.

Essentially every child on this planet is has the right to receive all the help they need to survive. This means that they must be provided with a certain, minimum standard of assistance in terms of nutritional food, health care access, a name

After Play School Activities How Your Kids React

The concept of playschools in India was unheard of a few decades ago, and few children if any, were sent to these playschools. The idea initially was to put children in a crche while the working parents were at office. Later on, this concept of dare care was expanded into a playschool where children could spend time constructively with other children of about the same age group, away from the parents.

Most playschools in India are a mixture of day care and montessoris, but recognized play schools have Montessori trained teachers supervising a bunch of kids. Though most recognized playschools like Poddar Jumbo Kids, Hippocampus, Eurokids and Kidzee are privately owned chain school, they are expensive for an average middle class Indian family but worth every penny of it.

Mrs. Dhawan feels Play schools provide children with the ideal opportunity of socializing with other children because it helped her son gradually get used to the concept of a classroom when he reached school without any trouble, making his transition into school easier. It wasnt the usual tear jerking first day at school. My child was full of smiles she happily said. Mrs. Kundra was happy to have sent her toddler to Roots to Wings because she didnt have to teach her the toilet training part. I was so surprised when Ankita went straight to the toilet when I woke her up in the morning. I felt the teachers at Toddlers Roots to Wings had done a wonderful job.

Pankaj, Mr. and Mrs. Vashists son, surprised everybody at a party by sharing his cake and chips with all those present at the birthday party. The parents are happy they made a wise decision of sending him to The Nestlings Play School.

If you are a parent and are worried about your childs admission in a Playschool, OSA invites you to get online and we will do everything for you right from giving you a choice of schools in the city of your choice through our online school directory to scheduling an interview for your child from a number of schools. Admissions

Dating Polish Women

Many American men are looking for online dates. Most of their dates are not American women but women from other countries. Popular women for single American men are those from Poland. For some reasons, a lot of men like going to Poland dating sites, and many Polish women are there too. They make friends. They get to know and date each other online. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that as long as people involved do not resort to illicit activities.

It is interesting to know that many men are enticed by Poland dating websites. Lets talk a bit about the women of Poland. The economy of the country is not as advanced as those countries in the west. However, lifestyle differences are not that stark. Polish women usually go to work, and many of them work and tend their families at the same time. Single women help in looking after their parents. Cost of living in Poland is considerably high. Having a car or living in an apartment is only good for those with enough monthly income. The high standard of living may present a problem to some citizens. Married women feel these problems more.

According to statistics there are more women in Poland than men. This presents an imbalance in population demographics. Some sources state that that difference is at 7%. This means that many women are bound to stay single. Single women after the age of 25 have high likelihood of remaining single for life. This causes frustration in some women who would like to have a family and raise kids. By the time they reach maturity, many men are no longer available. Those men left are less likely to be fit as partners. As a result, women simply go to a Poland dating site.

Language barrier could be an issue. Since English is not a major language in eastern European countries, people there may not speak fluent English. This can be frustrating for some men looking for dates in Poland. However, speaking in simple English is the key. Men who have made long-term

Geometry Study Tips

Geometry is the study of figures. We can segregate geometry into three parts – plane geometry, solid geometry, and spherical geometry. Plane geometry deals with objects like the point, line, circle, triangle, and polygon. Solid geometry deals with objects like the line, sphere, and polyhedron. Spherical geometry deals with objects like the spherical triangle and spherical polygon.

Starting with a few accepted truths (axioms and postulates), it builds up true statements by using a systematic step-by-step proof.

When students start studying geometry, at first they find it difficult because this is the first time they are learning the subject and they need to prove their answers. But just like all other subjects, when they learn it with patience and perseverance, they are able to master the subject.

Study Tips for Geometry

It has some accepted truths (axioms and postulates), so make sure you know them. Learn them thoroughly. Based on these axioms you will be proving many other theories.

Know all the geometry terms. To study geometry you must be familiar with its terminology. If you don’t know a term, don’t ignore it, look for its meaning and understand it.

Understand all the figures, and don’t just look at them and try to understand them. Always learn them by drawing them.

Make flashcards to remember formulas. Because during exams you should be very familiar with them.

Pay attention in the classroom. Try to understand as much as you can. Raise questions if you don’t understand anything. Asking questions increases understanding of the subject.

Don’t just complete your homework by copying it from someone, do it on your own by understanding it. It may take time, but you will understand everything and this will help you in the exams.

Problem solving is the key to learning mathematics so solve as many problems as you can. If you are not able to solve a problem, take it as a challenge and try to solve it.

Study in groups, it increases confidence levels. It also makes learning interesting.

Follow all these steps to ace geometry. If you still find it difficult and classroom geometry tutoring is not